請了解..沒自信的女人

沒自信的女人..你叫她何來安全感..
即使外表多強,,內裡依然空空如也,,

她們不是不相信對方..而是不相信自己..
她們不相信自己能牢牢的抓住一個人,,

也許她們每時每刻都在比較..
因為她們怕那一天她們做得不夠好就會被拋下..
其實她們很辛苦卻要裝沒事,,

如果你身邊的她都是個沒自信的人..
請你多一點告訴她你愛她..
請你多一點忍耐她的不安..
因為她可是承受著每一天都有可能被你拋下的懼恐..

她其實很愛你..❤

Pink makes me happy!

I still remember baby blue used to be my favorite color when I was standard 6. The customed curtain and bed sheet in my room was blue in color. 

Can't really recall when was the time I fell in love with pink. Currently, I'm "well known" as pink lover, all my friends know that I'm madly in love with pink. 

Pink makes me happy. In my opinion, pink is the color of all things that are fun about being a girl.

 "Light pink represent a baby girl... pure, hopeful, soft, loving...The world at her feet and a wonderful future ahead of her.  

Hot pink represents the passion felt by all women who has ever loved or been loved."

 

I believe in pink as pink makes me feel wonderful and comfortable.

Pink balloons

I would keep them forever if there is no expiry date. ;)

 

Pink nails

Pink polka dots, yet polka dots is my favorite!

 

"The very pink of perfection."

With love,

Jocelyn, xoxo

Joy ✿

Hello my dear friends! How are you guys? 

 Did you guys live life to the fullest as in tomorrow is end of the world? ☺

How would I describe Ms April? Hmmm, quite satisfied lah as in I went to Zouk @ Sepang, tried to quit smoking but ended up failed to the max, joined yoga class, happy shopping with my mommy, attended Wee Sern & Robin's graduation ceremony, watched AVENGERS *ngek-ngek* and etc...

How about Ms May? Owh well, she has been treating me very well. I had lotsa fun since the first day of May til now plus this month is my birthday, turning to the age of 27 years old. 

I am gonna celebrate my birthday at The Pool, Jalan Ampang on 25th May 2012. ;) It might be my last birthday celebration, oh maybe. ✿

HELLO APRIL!!! 

 

Went swimming with kawan kawan & my bf though I don't know how to swim. Ya, I know it's quite shameful telling people that I do not how to swim but you can't blame me, my leg got skin problem, doctor advised me that it's best not to enter swimming pool because of the chlorine.

 

Our group photo

Attended their grduation ceremony at Shangri-la Hotel. 

Btw, congrats to Wee Sern & Robin! ;D They were the superstar of the day!!

 

Why all the guys like to do silly face when taking picture? *scratch-head*

Argh, as usual. Bad gastric and the pain woke me up in the early morning =( Medicine is always my best friend, thanks for killing the pain

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♛ hahahaha, this is my working desk! It's getting more pink stuffs day by day. ✌

HELLO MAY!!!

 

Went to PD to celebrate friend's birthday. I will upload the photos to Faebook and blog about it soon.
Stay tuned yah.

 

A beautiful light, over the horizon into our eyes. =)

 

My friend's adorable baby huskies.

 

 

How I wish I can bring him home, play and take care of him. Unfortunately my parents will not allow ☹

Happie birthday to Pakcik Edmund...

Same as last year, celebrated his birthday kat Souled Out, Sri Hatamas. 

 

Got  my hair cut before I went off to Kuantan! ;D

My hairstylist, Yang was busy making me look pwetty pwetty. I find myself looked like a doll after he curled my hair. haha XD

Couple of my friends said we look alike, what think you? :p 

Yay! WE WERE AT SWISS GARDEN RESORT & SPA, KUANTAN ^^~

 It was a promising and relaxing trip for us.

Audrey Yy.Wsern.Terry.Jocelyn

Thanks Yy for her creative artwork. ;D

View of hotel lobby & our hotel room

Our delicious yummy yummy brekkie~

 

FYI, they can't live without each other. =,=

Kitten in the hotel lobby?

 

“I dropped a tear in the ocean, and whenever they find it I'll stop loving you, only then.”

  Chewing out a rhythm on my bubble gum, 

the sun is our and I want some.

It's not hard, not far to reach. 

We can hitch a ride, 

to rockaway beach.

Bf & I ❤

 

Buffet dinner at the hotel. My comment is, not much choices, the only foods I like was the lamb and spaghetti. 

Glad to have you in my life. I love you darling.

I think this puppy is cuter than the baby husky, he looks so innocent!!!

 

Two of my beloved 38 poh. Let me introduce them...

Top left: Xiao za bou a.k.a bai bai (Audrey Seto)

Below left: Another xiao za bou (Ashly Hor) but not as xiao as the one on top ;p

Right: Hrmm, owh well, not so xiao but 38 only! haha ;D

 My early birthday pressie that I received from the 2 xiao za bous above ❣♡
Thankiut zabou! ^^


So far from now. Stay tuned with my upcoming post yah.

With love,

Jocelyn, xoxo

我很好，希望你也是

一個男人的告白：「分手後再見的第一句話？稱讚她變美，要是真找不出來優點，就說新髮型很好看就對了。」
妳發現，自己可以祝福他了。因為只有自己過得好的人，才能有能力去祝福另一個人。

「我很好，希望你也是。」你們再見面的第一句話。妳把自己擺到前面，因為他早已不是妳的優先，更因為妳覺得自己早已比他重要，不再像從前。然後，妳再給他祝福，不是疑問句，而是千百個肯定。妳希望他可以好，就跟現在的妳一樣，過去那些不管好的或壞的，妳都努力讓它變成了一種意義，所以也希望他身上同樣帶著妳的祝福。

也就像是「再見面」，也是好事。你們幾乎可以像是老朋友，所以，能再見面是好的，可以看看他，跟他說些不著邊際的話，確認他是否過得好，就很好。畢竟相愛一場，妳心裡多少還是會掛念著他，可那再不是一種愛情，只因為他是妳某部分的自己，如此而已。妳也不想要更多，也不需要刻意保持聯絡，對妳而言，他是個存在，就足夠，靠得太近不一定好。你們是那種想過把手機裡對方的電話刪掉，然後又會捨不得，但留著也不會打給彼此的種朋友。擁有電話彼此的號碼，是你們最後的關聯，這樣就很好。

時間不只教會妳祝福，還教會妳對自己好的方式。

妳已經不太記得你們當初為什麼會分手了。當初爭執得不可開交的理由，妳竟然一點都想不起來，妳覺得有點好笑，那時候明明覺得那麼重要，所以才會不肯讓步、才會說什麼都不要妥協，但現在卻再不復記憶。那麼，當時在意的到底是什麼？時間或許會竄改記憶，但常常是在不知不覺中偷走你的回憶，而人就是在這樣的推移中長大的。

妳才明白，所有的不歡而散，只要時間拉得夠長，或是你們還有緣分，最後都會變成另一種圓滿。只是這個圓滿，不在彼此身上，而是在另一個人。跟著妳也才驚覺，那些曾經，不只是變成了已經，現在都變成了妳心裡的明經，指引著妳。妳曾經聽過，每個人跟另一個人相遇，都是為了跟他學習一件事情，妳不確定這句話是否正確，但妳卻很確定自己之所以變成現在的自己，很大一部分都是他所給予的。原來，是他讓妳變成了更好的人。

那些過不去的，不僅都已過去，還過成了妳的將來。

其實在還沒有見到他以前，妳曾在腦海裡想過千百遍情境、反覆練習過台詞，妳以為自己會不知所措，在他的面前，自己永遠都是孩子。而妳也不確定見到他，自己可以很好，妳的堅強可能會瞬間就瓦解，可能他的一舉一動還會是牽引著妳。妳的偽裝，從來都逃不過他的法眼。因此，妳很感激這次的偶遇，妳終於可以確認自己是真的很好，終於在他的愛裡長大成人。

分手後的再見面，從來都不會是一場敘舊，而是一個試煉，考驗著妳對愛、對他的能耐。

最後，妳要自己去祝福他，當作是愛的畢業典禮上的一種見證。妳終於可以安心，終於可以從今以後只為自己。而妳更知道，去祝福他，其實更是祝福自己。因為這表示自己已經把過去留在時間裡，示意著自己已經有能力再繼續往前了。 

祝福，是相愛後的畢業證書。妳很高興自己終於完成這個儀式。

A saddening story

A boy prosed his girlfriend for marriage, Girl: Tell me... who do you love most in this world..?

Boy: You, of course!
Girl: What am I to you?
Boy: The boy thought for a moment and looked intently in her eyes and said "u r missing part of my heart" She smiled,and she accepted his proposal. ♥

After their wedding, the couple had a sweet and happy life for a while.However,the youthful couple began to drift apart due to the busy schedule of life and the never-ending worries of daily problems...their life became difficult. All the challenges posed by the harsh realities of life began to drift away deir dreams and love for each other. The couple began to have more quarrels and each quarrel became make their relation
more worst.

One day, after the quarrel, the girl ran out of the house.... At the opposite side of the road, she shouted,"You don't love me...!"
The boy hated her childishness and out of impulse, said,"May be, it was a mistake for us to be together..! You were never da missing part of my ♥ ...!"

Suddenly, she turned quiet and stood there for a long while.... He regretted what he said but words spoken
cant be taken back. With tears in her eyes, she went home to pack her things and Before leaving the house,she left a note for him:
"If I'm really not da missing part of ur ♥, let me go..n search for sum1 whu is...It is less painful this way... Let us go on our separate ways and search for our own partners..."

Five years went by....
He never remarried but he had tried to find out about her life indirectly. She had left the country and was living her dreams.
He use to regret on what he did but never tried to bring her back.. In the dark and lonely night, he lit his cigarette and felt the lingering ache in his heart. He couldn't bring himself to admit that he was missing her.....
 

One day, they finally met.... At the airport, He was going away on a businesstrip .He saw her, she was
standing there alone, with just the security door separating them. She smiled at him gently.

Boy: How are you ?
Girl: I'm fine. How about you... Have you found your heart's missing part...?
Boy: No.
Girl: I'll be flying to New York in the next flight.
Boy: I'll be back in 2 weeks time. Give me a call when you are back...You know my number.... Nothing has
changed.
With a smile, she turned around and waved good- bye..
"Good-bye . . ."

Same evening he heard of a plane crash which was headed to New York.He tried to know about her and
found that, she died.

Midnight..... Once again, he lit his cigarette..... And like before, he felt the lingering ache in
his heart.... He finally knew, she was that missing part that he had carelessly broken . . .
 

Sometimes, people say things out of moments of fury. Most often , the outcome is disastrous and fatal at tyms. We take out our 99% frustrations at our loved ones and even though we know that we ought to"think twice and act wisely", we actually dont do it. Things happen each day, many of which are beyond our control. Try not to hurt ur loved once, because a moment of anger could be a lifetime punishment.

 

With love,

Jocelyn, xoxo